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writes:I'm a married women of 25yrs who has had a 3yr relationship with a man who thought i was divorced. I want out of this now, but the other guy says he wants to see my divorce papers or else he will tell my husband.I know what i have done is very very wrong and found my husband to be my true love. Is there anyway i can get divorced papers to show him, so i will not loose my family?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): Dear poster
You might not like this answer, but I am not here to judge you;I am merely trying to give you an answer and help you to get perspective;
You need to wake up! You are playing with people and there emotions involved; maybe you are ruthless and heartless but do remember other people are human and have emotions.
You should open up and be honest with your husband; rather let him hear the truth from you; it will be so much worse if he has to learn the truth from other people.
I hope you can work this out; it might be difficult to convince your husband, but maybe you can both go for counseling and work through this.
COMMUNICATION is vital in a relationship; so is honesty, trust and respect; You need to take stock and see how important these things are in your life and how they feature in your FUTURE; being it with or without your husband; you need to take stock about YOU the person and your VALUES.
Sorry this might sound harsh but you need to do some introspection and make up your mind; you can not have your bread butter both sides; who do you want to be with?
If need be go for counseling and get your mind and priorities sorted out.
Best wishes and hope you find the solution. Keep SMILING
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