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writes:Hello everyone,My problem isnt that significant, but any advice possible would be extremely helpful to me in many ways.Me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up recently because i guess he didnt like me anymore and wanted to go out with this other girl...well, while we were dating, he kept telling me he would stop talking to her, and he hated her, and didnt even like her.. but he lied... so i want my 'revenge'.I dont want to hurt him that bad.. but i just want him to realize how much hes hurt me. Is there anything i can do to prove my point?I was thnking about singing a song, but i have no idea what song would be best to use.. any suggestions?please hurry to respond!!
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (22 September 2008):
 best way to get revenge is to move on and show he hasnt hurt you at all. Move on and be happy, show him what he missed by leaving you. And ignore him, make him feel small by being bigger.
Going out to show him your hurt only shows your the weaker person and shows him you still want him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): What point would it be to making him understand he hurt you, hun? If he's with another female, he really and truely doesn't care, does he. He's moved on and some guys can do this--they can simply disconnect, quickly. I can guaruntee, 100%, if he's not dating you anymore, he won't care what type of revenge you try to enact. All you will succeed at doing is looking silly and nothing will be accomplished. So many women get hurt and angry over BS like this. Listen, you dated a guy for 2 months and you found out he's a liar. Thankfully, you found this out now, before dating him for a year! It sounds like you quickly and engaged your emotional heartfelt feeling way too soon, dear. You are totally responsible for your own feelings here, not him. Yes, you feel powerless because you let your feelings get the better of you, you still like him a lot, and this one-down position is wearing on you. The guy betrayed your trust-he caused hurt. Now leave it alone. Muster up your pride, just heal, recover and get out there and live your life to the fullest...and be a happy, positive person. That in my books, will be the best 'revenge' you can ever give anyone else. And the benefit to being this way? Some other great guy might just take note of your brightness and happy demeanor...cause that is what's attractive about people...is their sense of self and their confidence. Work this 'revenge thing' out and don't do anything. You will bw pleased in the end, that you didn't do anything. You wasted just 2 short months on this guy...learn from this experience and move on, sweety. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): Don't fight fire with fire....you get a bigger fire and all hell breaks loose...sure you want revenge.....Do or say something that will make him regret. I didnt want to try and help.
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