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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am confused because this guy has been my friend for a while but the flirty type of friend. me and him had a lot of jokes, but when anyone asked him if he liked me he would say, I'm waiting for freshman year to see if i like anyone, i had been dreading that day for a long time but when it came he still seem to be as close as ever even though we didn't have the same classes. then two days ago he tells me he has a crush on someone else and i was completely crushed, meanwhile this other guy is totally into me, and very funny, nice and cute. we shared the same interests and he makes me laugh. now he is a freshman (hes 15) and i am in 8th grade. i went to our school dance and he sat in the corner the whole time, which made me even more depressed. I asked him to join our dance group and he said no and started dancing with the high schoolers, and thats when i started to feel like complete trash. i smiled at my friends when i needed to (so they didn't think anything was wrong) and i thought it was my fault because he didn't like me, and was disgusted by me. the next day i find out officially that he likes someone else, and i am completely crushed, and hopelessly in love and i don't know why. The other guy, lets call him ted, is obsessed with me and is soo nice, but it always feels very wrong when I'm around him. it just doesn't fit right. what do i do? should i tell him how i feel even though he said he would rather date my friend above me? Or do i take a chance with this new guy, who is cute, funny and totally in love with me (who makes me feel better) or something else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): I think you should definitely tell him you have feelings for him even though he says he has a crush on someone else. He may reconsider his options and go for you instead since he already knows you so well. The other guy may be nice but you don't feel for him as you do with your friend. Follow your heart and tell him you like him. Once he knows this, he has the option to act upon it anytime instead of wondering himself if you are interested in him.
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