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female
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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. we both lost "it" to each other. i was pregnant once and lost the baby. my point is we've experienced a lot together. we were in love for the first year. we were planning to get married as soon as i was eighteen. he bought me a ring and everything. he used to cry when i cried or if we fought, because he was scared to lose me. he used to tell me that i was the best thing that has ever happened to him. we decided to wait to get married. i went to college only 30 mins away so i can come see him every weekend. every time he calls me now he is mad because im with friends and not in my room studying. he used to call me everyday sometimes more than once. now im lucky if he calls more than once a week. when i come home on the weekends he always has something else to do and never sees me, and if he does it's only for an hour which is how long it takes us to fight. i had an anxiety attack today and called him. he promised to see me but never came. when i called and told him i was bawling, the only thing he said was that he had to go. i then got upset and questioned why he didnt care about me and he got off the phone. he said hed call back but never did. i feel like when i need him hes not there... he turns his back on me. we always fight. when i cry he doesnt care, he says he doesnt want to listen to it. he used to comfort me. i dont think he loves me anymore. I want to break up with him because he treats me like im nothing to him. every now and then theres a day where hes so sweet and apologizes for everything but im starting to think it's a show. but as much as i want to break up with him, i do love him. i cant just stop caring about him. it's been like this ever since a month before i left for college. so 2 months. the first year and 4 months was perfect. ive told him several times that he was close to losing me but he just got mad. what should i do? will i be better off hurting because i broke up with him or hurting because he doesnt love me anymore?
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reader, teencitizen92 +, writes (21 September 2008):
the longer you stay the more its going to hurt when it does end so tell him everything you feel. and figure where you go from there.
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