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I got drunk and broke most of the windoes at my school, why is my friend offering to help me?

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Question - (21 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2008)
A age 26-29, * writes:

hate my life .All the teachers hate at my school my guts. My family is poor (we don't have a lot of nice things). One night I got so drunk that I broke most of the windows at my school with baseball bat. I can barely remember it.

When told one of friends Abby (not her real name) who I trust with everything she told the principal, some teachers and her parents. Now I have pay for all the windows I broke. Which is going take a while to pay for it and my friend is offering to help me for the window. Why is she being nice to me? Im use to people treating me like crap.

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A male reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

OhLawdWhat DoIDo agony auntI think it is cute that she is offering to help you to pay for the windows. She is just being kind towards you. However I am unsympathetic towards your situation. You should not accept any money off anybody to pay for the windows and instead should earn the money yourself. It was a mistake that could have been avoided if you hadn't have been so irresponsible! I guess it's just a lesson you have to learn, and this is a lesson that is best learnt alone.

Good luck getting those windows fixed!

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

You are going through some major issues at this moment and have been for along time from your post love, This friend told the truth and she protected you because sweetheart she is a true friend. It is so hard when you have been treated badly to trust and accept someone that cares you always question it..Dont question this hun she is a good friend that can see you have pain and trouble and wants to be there for you she may even understand your pain more than you know..Take this friendship as a gift and maybe it will help you alot, Your so young to be getting drunk and you must have very strong anger issues caused by something love, To get to the bottom of this and to get some help would be a good thing.

Its not all about what we have in life in matierial things that counts love, Yes I no we need food and a roof over our heads to feel comfortable, It is what is inside of us as a person that is the most importand thing..And if you want to find out how to change things in your life and maybe do better at school and not have so many anger issues (I understand its not easy when you feel not liked or cared about love) But if you start now by turning your life around abit then you will be in a much better place within when you are older..Ive found a phoneline that you can talk to trained counsellors about anything hunny and it free...

http://www.neoteenhelp.org/

Take your friends help as a gift and no that she cares for you WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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