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41-50,
*luemidget83
writes: I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks now and I have felt from the start that he is the one. He says I love you to me and I know it's really soon and new into the relationship, but I just can't shake the feeling that he is the one. How can I go about seeing if the feeling's mutual without coming right out and saying it? We've both been burned before, and I just need some advice of how to tell if he's feeling what I am. I don't want to get my heart broken again. I really love this man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): hey-
live and learn.
life is a roller coaster of highs and lows.
your past has created fears and left you a little unstable and unsure.
dont let your past have a negative impact on your present thoughts and relationship. learn from what happend previously and do things differently this time round.
not all guys are the same- and this one must be special if you know that he is the 'one'.
the best way to acheive this is- if you take it slowley- have fun- but speak to him tooo.
one night- sit together- watch a movie- and just ask him how he feels- ask him if he thinks this is a proper relation ship and tell him your afraid he will break your heart-tell him how you feel about him and discuss what you both dont want in the relationship.
most of all- laugh - play- and have fun! youre young! be lovers but be the best of mates too! tell him you want loads of honesty- and that you want him to treat you as a friend too- so that he can tell you anything.
love and *God bless*
friend xx
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