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I have felt from the start that he is the one, but I don't want to get my heart broken again.

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Question - (21 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *luemidget83 writes:

I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks now and I have felt from the start that he is the one. He says I love you to me and I know it's really soon and new into the relationship, but I just can't shake the feeling that he is the one.

How can I go about seeing if the feeling's mutual without coming right out and saying it? We've both been burned before, and I just need some advice of how to tell if he's feeling what I am.

I don't want to get my heart broken again. I really love this man.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

hey-

live and learn.

life is a roller coaster of highs and lows.

your past has created fears and left you a little unstable and unsure.

dont let your past have a negative impact on your present thoughts and relationship. learn from what happend previously and do things differently this time round.

not all guys are the same- and this one must be special if you know that he is the 'one'.

the best way to acheive this is- if you take it slowley- have fun- but speak to him tooo.

one night- sit together- watch a movie- and just ask him how he feels- ask him if he thinks this is a proper relation ship and tell him your afraid he will break your heart-tell him how you feel about him and discuss what you both dont want in the relationship.

most of all- laugh - play- and have fun! youre young! be lovers but be the best of mates too! tell him you want loads of honesty- and that you want him to treat you as a friend too- so that he can tell you anything.

love and *God bless*

friend xx

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