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I feel I would look stupid kissing guys. How do I take the edge off so I can actually date?

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Question - (21 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I'm in high school but am worried about the way i look,like every other girl i guess.Most of my friends have boyfriends or have recently been in a relationship.I have not been in a relationship for over three years.

There's a boy in my year group and most of my lessons that i really like,he's funny and clever and cute too.A lot of girls see him as a friend or a fat person to laugh at.I really like him but we're both kinda sarcastic so i don't supposse it will go down well.I'm scared because i have issues kissing guys,i feel that i look stupid and always seem to edge away.I haven't kissed a guy in 3 years so i fear i may not be good at it or may even have forgotten how to kiss.I'm in a dilema and i need help to get out of this situation.What should i do ??x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

If you really like someone, it shouldn't matter about all the other stuff. You might think no one else is in the same postiton, but they are, ( like me! ) I really think you should go for it, and if it doesnt work out, he obviously doesnt deserve you and anyway, what have you lost? If it does work out, then great! You might think back in a few years and wonder why you didnt make a move, and really regret it, so at least you will know one way or another. You never know, he might be feeling exactly the same. Just take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy it!

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntGet a boyfriend first, think about kissing later, once you are so smittien you don't care!!!!!! ;)

I have only got off with a couple of boys but first kisses are never that great. But make sure he only tries to kiss you. Don't be too forward.

Well, bon chance,

Jelly

xxx

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A female reader, cloudnine-andbeyond United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

cloudnine-andbeyond agony auntdont worry about how you look, if your happy then thats all that matters.

if you do like this guy then try to get to know him more... most importantly have fun!!! your only a teenager once... and anyway, your still young and most people of your age (including me!) arent amazing kissers, you wont have forgoten because i'm sure you didnt take a kissing course when you were younger...it just happend right?? just rememeber to have fun!!! ^^

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