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writes:Me and my girlfriend has been going out for a year now, and it feels like we were meant to be, but a week ago she told me that she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend (they broke up because he cheated on her). She told me that she was over him but I guess not. I told her that we should go on a break and for her to tell me what does she wants after. But I'm not if we can really be together like we were once before. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): i m sure u know this quate if you are cheated once shame on her if twice shame on u.i m sure u have bee having very painfull period right now but the thing is she was also cheated by her ex so she knows how it feels like to be cheated how much hurt and so on..so if she let u feel all this bad things that she allready experienced i think u should stop and think for a moment that if the defination of love is the same for both of u.
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reader, Ms. X +, writes (21 September 2008):
 My question is, did she initiate the first break or did you? Because if she initiated it just to go sleep with her ex that makes what she did even worse.... I would seriously think about the risks before you put your heart on the line by getting back with her, she obviously has unresolved feelings for her ex and you don't want to get back with her just for her to break up with you down the road for him....
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reader, Ligzer  +, writes (21 September 2008):
 Hey
look, this girl is not trustworthy - she cheated on you, the fact that she didnt love you enough not to hurt you like that is a reason on its own to move on
the fact that she's not faithful means shes not a good partner, so why should you put up with it?
Time is the best healer, there are plenty of fish in the sea, someday you will find someone else who is really perfect for you - and will stick by you. so end it and move on, don't let it happen again :]
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