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writes:im so confused over this guy!! we were seeing other briefly for a while a few months back and then it got very brief..such as seeing him once every couple of weeks. i went to see him a week ago and since then we havent spoke. i saw him out last night and i was with another guy all night. we have both been with other people in the last few weeks and we both know about this. but usually when i see him out we talk a little bit..but we didnt speak or even look at each other all night. im quite upset because i do still like him and want more with him..but i think last night might hve ruined any chance i had. i want to talk to him but feel he will not want me too. i know i shouldnt like him and i know that its probably time that i moved on but its just so hard cause i have such strong feelings for him!! does anyone have anything to comment on the situation..such as if this is just a hopeless relationship or not..and if it is does anybody have any advice on how to get over him. ive tried to meet other people..ive been on a few dates and had small flings with other guys but the whole time im thinking about him!! i need to stop this! x Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (4 February 2009):
 well, the only way you will find out if this is hopeless or not is to speak to him, however to me it sounds like he's not hat interested (sorry to be blunt about it) i'm sure theres alot of better people out there for you than him, someone who is interested in you and worthy of you.
ways to get over him...well, only time can heal, you can try all of the tricks in the book and you may think you're over him but only time will tell. if you do believe that there is a quicker way of getting over him then try it,keep busy, see friends! i would avoid other men for the minute, they only complicate the situation further, and its kind of bad on the man that you decide to go on a date with and you're only thinking about another guy! keep me updated on the situation. xx hope i helped. xx
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