Wow! Have I blown it?

A female age 36-40, *eanix writes:

I met this guy about seven months ago in a karaoke bar. We started talking and afetr a few weeks we exchanged phone numbers. We ended up sleeping together several times and I really liked him. In the summer I had to go away for work purposes and he was really upset about it. We promised to stay in touch with each other and a few weeks went by and I had sent twelve texts which were never replied to. I soon began to fall for him as absence makes the heart grow fonder and when I returned to London and met with another friend who said it was because the guy wasnt interested, he acted as a sholder to cry on however he soon began to want more and I foolishly replied hurt and confused. The guy I fancied and myself soon met up again and thought the other was ignoring us. We had both been sending messages which never got delivered? We laughed at this and began going parties and spending time together. One night I told him I had feelings for him and he said that he didnt feel the same. I fled and little did I know this really made him angry. He gave me a second chance to get to know him after about two weeks. However the day after we had decided to start being honest with each other he found out I slept with the other guy and he brought some girls to our local pub. He never introduced me to them and I began to get jealous. i asked him who they were and he just said it was none of my business you have no right to get jealous youre not my girlfriend I dont mean that in a bad way. The next day I girl proclaimed to be the one from the pub and they did look alike. I ended up in a fight and when he found out he got angry and said that I was acting like a crazy ex. I begged him to listen to me but he just kept ignoring me . He told me that he fancied me and was going to ask me out but I blew it by getting jealous. Im not completely lost and so distraught over the situation. He says its all my fault. That I have been talking about him behind his back, that he cant trust me and that we are finished completely and that I will never be his girlfriend because of this. He says he took me back when i ran off the last time.I dont understand what I have done wrong. I love him so much and Ive waited six months to be with him. Why is he being like this. Is it really my fault and have I blown it completely. He says that I have hurt him and he cant trust me anymore

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