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writes: I've never done this before, but here goes...I'm a 20 year old student, majoring in economics pre-law. I'll be graduating in the next few months, and will be one of the youngest students attending law school, so I'd like to think I have a decent head on my shoulders. I'm well spoken, articulate, athletic and attractive (I know I know, modesty...) I was in a relationship for over a year, with a lovely girl, who I really thought I would marry. It's been almost a year now, and I can finally say that I'm over it. However, I'm really having a hard time finding ANYONE else that I'm interested in. I've been on enough dates over the past year, but can't seem to find anyone that I actually connect with or am even interested in. My question is, is this normal? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (3 October 2008):
To me it is. I have been single since january, and I like it that way. Similar to you I am looking for a career change, and ive got my social life, kids, home, and have met shed loads of blokes in the last few months, been out for a drink with, yet no one yet has struck me as someone I would want to persue as a relationship, and we end up mates. End of.
I dont expect you will be single forever anymore than I will. Whats wrong with being happy with it at the moment, concentrating on whats important to us, then who knows in the future?
C xxxxx
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (3 October 2008):
Maybe your trying to find someone who is just like your ex? If you wasn't interested in anyone at all, I doubt you would of gone on the dates in the first place.
Your only 20 so I wouldn't worry too much, i'm sure you will meet someone else whos special when you least expect to.
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