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writes:My girlfriend and I have talked about using some sex toys but neither one of us has any experience with them and she's a bit quiet in the bedroom and usually likes it better when I take charge. Any tips on the best way to use a vibrator or the techniques you use? My impression is that most people use them more to stimulate the clitoris than for penetration, but I'm not sure. Also do you vary the vibrating speed based on how turned on you are, or usually stick to one the whole time?
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (4 October 2008):
I use a bullet with my bf and i only use it on my clit. I always start out with it on a spfter setting until the sensation isn't as intense and then go up after. I was shy with it but my boyfriend took charge and made me feel better and i loved it.Hope that helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): Hi The best advice I can give to you is it really depends on how your girlfriend likes it, the whole point of sex aids and toys is for you to experiment and have fun. I would advice getting a vibrating egg to stimulate her clit to start this will make things more comfortable and fun and its nice for you too as you can feel it when using it on her clit and being inside her. Dildo's come in all shapes and sizes, get one simular to your own size or smaller and try to not be too rough with her maybe even allow her to use it to start so she can get used to the feel. Have fun with it and each other look on the internet for sex toys you like the look of.
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