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writes:My gf dumped me sunday cos she said she was confused about things, and assured me there was no-one else, then wednesday she told me her heart loves two guys, her mate and myself.she wants to try things with the other guy and see what happens. she has told me i was distant and moody and she didn't feel loved, she never tried to explain these things to me at the time. via text she said if i can prove to her i can change she will think about us trying again.I'm scared in the meantime she will get with her mate and i will have lost her for good. i want her in my life because i love her with all my heart. Is there anything i can do to get her back? she says she loves me, but can she if she wants to try with her mate to see if she loves him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Wow! I can't believe you still want to be with her. hmm... but I see where she is coming from. She needs to work things out for herself. I think it's possible to care for 2 people at once. I don't think she's "in love" with you and the guy at the same time. I think this could be a "this can make you or break you point." If you really want to be with her. Just leave her alone. That sounds crazy, but if you give her space she won't be able to stand it. She'll think I can't believe he's getting over me this quickly. She'll see what she's been missing and come back to you. just hang in there. and don't be moody! lol be yourself.
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