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30-35,
anonymous
writes:A guy really likes me and he keeps asking me out. I think I like him too but I'm really not sure. I'm really worried about kissing him as I've never kissed anyone before.Please help :(
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reader, anon642 +, writes (3 October 2008):
 You say you think you like him but your really not sure?
First of all, you need to figure out if you do actually like him.
If not, things should end there.
If you do, then why not give it a chance? Don't let kissing get in the way! It's nothing to be afraid of and comes so naturally.
I was scared at my first kiss but when mouths opened and lips and tongues locked, it came naturally.
If your really worried about the kiss, all i can say is wait until you feel ready, then just let him take the lead and you'll soon find yourself responding naturally.
Remember theres no rushing involved. Just take the kiss slowly, dont do anything quickly/suddenly and once the first ones over, you'll want to go again!
Seriously, once you've got the first kiss out the way, you'll wonder what on earth all this was about :)
Relax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): It just comes naturally! Trust me-I didn't get my first kiss until I was 20, and I was freaking out when I knew it was coming. Once you start, your body just takes over and you know what to do.
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 Hey girl, don't worry about that. Someday you will kiss somebody, so it wouldn't be much different if you do now or later. It depends on person you're kissing and how much you like him/her. It is not so difficult as you may think it is. If you're still not sure, drink one glass of wine before you do it. :) Or read some advices on the internet of kissing before you do that.
Just try to be relaxed with him. If you like him, it can't be too much difficult. Don't worry. Everyone's kissing and you will too. I can't say you would be "professional kisser" at the first time, but no one is not! If you like him, go out and you'll see what happen. Good luck.
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