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writes: I might be havein sex on saturday with my best friend. We are both 15 im a male virgin and she has slept wiht bout 7 guys.Can someone please give me some advice on sex as a whole?Thanks for your reply James =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): I must say, you seem to know a lot about the sexual history of this girl and do not sound like you have a very high opinion of her! It is quite possibly only rumour too. You should also not be having sex at your age! When you meet a girl, get to know her and really care about each other, the experience will be more fulfilling and meaningful.
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reader, anon642  +, writes (5 October 2008):
 cant give you advice on sex as a whole cos im a virgin myself.but;like everyone else,i cant stress enough how much you really do need to use a condom. dont just buy one, buy a few.And i dont care if your allergic, we are both from the Uk and yes you can buy latex-free condoms, go see your doctor or a pharmacist or just have a little investigate.BUT GET SOME!And being from the UK, you should know as much as i do that sex at 15 is illegal for you. Don't just think you have too because everyone else is doing it. Cos they're not.If you think your ready for sex, ask yourself two questions;are you ready to potentially have a baby?what are you going to do if you get a STD?Im not saying from this girl, but what about the next one, or the one after that?Whats the best way to have a 100% guarantee of none of this happening?Simple. Dont have sex, wait. There's no rush.All the best.
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reader, Cherriepie  +, writes (5 October 2008):
 Find lambskin condoms ...and if you want to please her make sure she cums before you do. You should give her plenty of oral to get her motors started. Since she has more experience, let her take the lead and tell you what she wants...follow her and dont get too anxious. Dont worry about the comparisons to other guys... that's gonna happen no matter you are with. Just enjoy and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): why would you be having sex with someone who might tell people if you were shitty in bed...but since you seem to not really care...go online and google non latex condoms...I dunno what they have in your country
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim alergic to latex can i get latex free condoms?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): Protection is the first key. A girl with 7 partners at age 15 is a bit of a slut. Think twice about getting "involved" with her. You may regret it in the future. You only have one "first time" and you will remember it your whole life.
If your still going for it, masterbate a couple of hours beforehand. Then when your with her, take it slow and easy. Relax and if you find yourself getting too exited, too fast, sing an old song (in your head) to yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): hey dude. 15 is legal is some countries, lol, but it'd probably be irresponsible for me to instruct you. Nevertheless, it's unlikely that anyone here on the internet could talk you out of it, lol, so just enjoy yourself. Since she's experienced you should probably let her be on top, just do your best, LOL. And my god, use a condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe likes sex a hell of a lot apparently. Im like mega virgin i never kissed a girl or anything. I just want to know how not to be shit at sex cause shell probs tell all the people at school that i was shit.
Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): Well, my first piece of advice is that you are underage and you shouldn't be having sex at all. However, if you are determined to go ahead with it my advice is USE PROTECTION! Do not even contemplate it if you are not going to use condoms, it is simply not worth the risk of pregnancy or STIs. I would also be especially wary if the girl you are going to sleep with is the same age as you and has already slept with around 7 other people. That is far too young to have had so many partners. Do you think she has been careful on all those occasions? Do you just want to be another one on the list? Why has she had so many partners already? Sex is something you should do with someone you both love and trust, especially losing your virginity. Are you sure that she is the one? Other than protection, I don't really know what sort of advice you are looking for....I would imagine she has a fair idea of what she is doing if what you say about her past is true, beyond the mechanics what you do really depends on what feels right for you and your partner. I would really warn you off this one; if you need advice on the basics of having sex I think you should probably wait for a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): "Might" is a rather pescimistic way to look at it. You say she has already had 7 other guys in her? I'm going to assume that the 2 of you are about the same age. Given that, I'd say that sex with girl is almost gauranteed. Just go with the flow. Sex comes naturally, as long you don't think about it too much.
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