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*kittles03
writes:I have previously posted about 7 months ago saying......"been feeling quiet lonley now i have graduated from uni recently and all my friends have moved away and the ones that stayed are more friendly with my ex. me and ex dated all through uni but broke up by then end of it and now all the friends i thought i made through uni dont see me anymore i still talk to them by facebook.text/phone but when it comes to going out i dont get invited as my ex is there. i feel like all the socialising and friends i made in uni were a waste of time. i feel so alone and left behind...im also still at home as i cant afford to move out just yet while they all have places in the city and visit each other etc......it's hard for me to make friends as im 24 and everyone seems to have formed groups already and are not interested."........I now have a job and have joined a few clubs of doing things I enjoy with like minded people but yet I am still very lonely nobody seems to be interested in having new friends as they all already have their own friends to hang out with work is not much better as they come to work and go. it seems like my situation isn't going to get better an i feel awful the friends that used to chat on facebook no longer do so and i feel more alone than ever .....can anyone offer advice???
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (4 October 2008):
 The world is changing and people dont seem to have time to speak to each other. Uni is a great time whilst its happening partying and meeting new people but when it is over you do feel lonely. Think of things you enjoy doing and go and do somthing as a hobby.There is no way for any one to give advice on making friends but all I can say is make sure you dont have the kind of people you cant trust just for the sake of having friends. Sorry I could not help more. Good Luck! P.s If the people dont tak to you who went uni with you they are not worth your time and they dont diserve you as a friend.
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reader, Averageman  +, writes (3 October 2008):
First things first, you have to be happy with yourself or nobody will want to be around you. Be comfortable with who you are, what you like, and who you'd like to become. That is when others will be comfortable around you. Be youself! If they don't want you as a friend your probably better off. Keep your chin up and enjoy another sunrise.
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