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Why doesn't my boyfriend want to spend time with me? What's wrong with me?

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Question - (3 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been with my fiance one year now and we only see each other twice a week. The two days out of the 7 he would rather spend at home or with my family. I get all dressed up trying to look cute and you would think since we only have those two days he would want to be alone and spend time with me, but nooooo he'd rather stay home or spend time with my family instead of me. whats wrong with me or him?

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (4 October 2008):

sappygirl agony aunti dissagree with talking to him.

Honestly, i think he's scared about the prospect of getting married. Men are afraid to lose their freedom, and marry a "needy" or clingy girl.

To show him that you are not one of those girls, go out and do your own thing. Although you want to be with him, don't tell him. Let him miss you by you not being so available. Then he will realize how much he wants you. that's just my opinion

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

nothing just say "r u avoiding me and if not lets spend more time together" im a 13 year old boy but it will work belive me. :-)

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