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41-50,
*dls
writes:Hello..I have been sexually active for a very long time and my boyfriend of about 8 months..we have the greatest sex I've ever had or can imagine....I am very confused, I find myself searching up how to have an orgasm all the time. Yes, I have had a clitoral orgasm hundreds of times by myself and with my boyfriend stimulating me/oral sex/me on top having sex/him on top--rubbing against me.I am very very interested in having female ejaculation (or squirting) or just COMING a real come would be very nice.. I've tried to stick my 2 fingers in and stimulate some area? but nothing ever feels that good to me. It only feels extra good when my boyfriend has intercourse with me or uses our small vibrator in-and-up my vagina (which I guess would be my gspot?) because it drives me crazy when we do it doggie style and he puts his legs on the outside of mine and goes downwards so it rubs the front of my vaginal wall or when he puts my legs above his shoulders and it's rubbing against my front wallanyways he says he would love it if I squirted, and I sometimes tell him he probably needs to stimulate me more. I know you feel like you're going to pee when it's suppose to come out. And I have felt that once when I was on top of him going at it really hardI just want some help. And has anyone else had trouble trying to orgasm this way? I just want some advice and help from people that think they don't have a g spot hahaI have also read every girl can have a g spot orgasm it just takes time/patience/practiceahh helpthanks
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reader, gazellegirl  +, writes (19 November 2008):
To everyone out there - You can 100% learn how to squirt! Any woman can learn to squirt, it's a natural phenomina that is just not really understood in the West. This free to use site will give you all the background info:http://www.Learn-To-Squirt.com there are loads of references, drawings, etc about female ejaculation throughout Eastern history - but like the Kama Sutra this are only just beginning to be understood here in the West.Check out that site and you'll soon be squirting - just like me and all my friends! And one final time - IT"S DEFINITELY NOT PEE!
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reader, supermum +, writes (3 October 2008):
 I am afraid that not every woman can ejaculate....However, speaking from someone who can, I wouldn't wish is on anyone lol.... its really messy... so you can't just curl up in a ball and go to sleep, you need to change the duvet, get in the shower etc etc lol.
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reader, tsarina  +, writes (3 October 2008):
Hi thereYou are still young and probably get very excited about just having sex for the sake of it - like rabbits really. As we grow older we learn to enjoy it for longer periods and eventually can differentiate between making love and having sex for the fun of it - almost with little emotion attached. I am recently separated and it took me a few tries to orgasm again with my new boyfriend. However, the way I overcame it was by increasing foreplay, with no penetration and no genital stimulation. Get to know and explore each others bodies. I also found that I needed to feel completely wanted before taking it to the penetration level. I have since enjoyed multiple orgasms, and all because my partner put the effort in beforehand to get me over-excited to the point of begging for him to take me. Try it, it worked for me.
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