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My girlfriend is boring in bed!

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Question - (26 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my girlfriend is boring in bed

i been going out with my girlfriend now for a year and she doesnt like foreplay. during that year she has given me head/blowjob about 5times! she hates it if i go down on her. she hates it if my penis has been inside of her and she wont touch it coz it been in her. she will let me finger her and that the most forplay i get. she doesnt take her bra off during sex and she only does 1 position where im on top. we have done 2/3 positions, her on top, me on top, doggy and sitting.

its starting to get really boring and i feel like cheating on her as i want a god f**k where the girl will do anything.

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A male reader, sintalation United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

you need to try and educate her about other sexual things go on a website that sells sexy things together even if you just look she will learn there is a lot more to sex check out sintalation .co.uk

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (26 May 2008):

oldfool agony auntShe won't take her bra off? That's pretty boring!

You need to talk to her about this. Find out what the problem is. I guess the bra is because she lacks confidence in her breasts. The refusal to let you go down is because she lacks confidence in the taste and smell of her private parts.

You need to reassure her that you LOVE her body and you can't get enough of it. Also that it upsets you not to be able to love her completely.

As Emivia said, if there is no way to improve things, you really should think of finding a new girl. I'm sure there are boring guys out there who are perfect for her!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

I agree dont cheat that isnt the thing. Have you tryed talking to her and telling her how you feel. Maybe she had a bad experince with forplay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

Don't cheat. You'll end up feeling guilty and you'll end up really hurting your girlfriend.

Sex is an important part of your relatioship. You could try talk to her about, tell her that ou find her attractive but that you'd really like to try something new. If the sex remains bad then maybe youd be better off leaving her and finding someone who will enjoy hanging aorund with as friends and who will satisfy you in bed.

Good Luck.

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