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30-35,
*talianchic
writes:ok I am 13 going into High School this fall, but i am sooo confused of who i am. I really like thinking about lesbian stuff and masturbate to it. But i don't know if i'm bi or lesbian or i don't know but i wish i knew what i am. any advice from someone who know their sexuallity. HELP PLEASE!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): hi, im in the same position as you. im 13 and i dont know about my sexuality either. i really want someone to talk to, but i really dont know who to be honest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): hi,
i had the feeling at the same age,but that doesn't mean you are lesbian or bi,i didn't find out if was till i was 15 by accident,but i think you should go with your feelings
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): im a guy around your age and i had these feelings to but they passed it jsut wasnt right for me. in my apinion don't tell any one this stuff tell your sure becuase rumors can be a bitch.
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 this is all normal every1 goes throuhg this satge when you wonder who you are and you experiment with yourself its really normal
if you just go with what you like and want you will be fine thinking of girls and mastubating is just expermenting if you are a lesbian you have to except that there is nothing rong with bis gays and lesbians no matter what some stupid people say so dont hate yourself for who you are you are only young so you have plenty of time to work out who you are
good luck xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Honey, calm down! At your age, your whole body is experimenting with the world in general, especially sexuality. Many straight girls like fantasizing over lesbian-type acts. What they say is if it feels wrong to be with the same sex, then you're not gay/lesbian. Does it feel wrong? Do you feel guilty afterwards? But honey, don't worry. It's all just a label and you be whatever it feels right to be. Your hormones will settle down soon :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Just relax. You know you like woman, that's one thing. And you should be proud that you know that about yourself even when you're so young.
It can be very confusing when you are so young, but just give yourself time. Just start by dating women and then later on, if you find yourself drawn to a man then try dating with him.
You'll soon know. Don't stress out about it, ok?
Good Luck. X
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