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writes:What are your opinions on this. My husband and I are both pretty traditional, but due to strange events, and alcohol we were with an intimate group of friends and become intimate with one of the women. She is close, and in need right now, both our hearts go out to her. after talking about it later I find he is not worried about the encounter. He was careful not to be personally physically involved with her, so it doesn't cross his boundaries. He doesn't find it a problem for me to have gotten physical, though. I guess I'm not as clear on how I feel about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Your husband is fine with it because he wants to have sex with the both of you at the same time. You can be conservative all you like Men are wired to have sex with the most women possible and this is an opportunity he cannot pass up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): So are you not so sure how you feel about the encounter because you feel wrong and that you have betrayed your husband in some way? If that is the case, he has made clear that he does not mind about the whole thing and he trusts you which is what matters, and this means you can stop beating yourself up about it. If it is really bothering you, you could have a talk with your husband about it and confirm how he feels.
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xx Hope xx
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