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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. I pushed him away from me. I've learned a lot in these last 3 months that I didn't know before. I've been going to church and attending bible study, not for my relationship, but for myself to change my attitude when I get into relationships. If I was in any other relationship with another man, I would have said forget him if he left and I would just find me somebody else. It's something about this one that wants me to not give up on him. I know that I have caused him to not have trust in me with the way I acted when I was with him. There was no cheating, just my own insecurities because I felt that he didn't feel the same way about me as I did for him. I notice that he stares at me a lot when he sees me and he told me that he still had feelings for me and misses me. He even called me. I call him every now and then to tell him to have a good day. You know we as women get a feeling that our man is seeing someone else, even though we are broken up, I don't get that feeling, so I feel that I still have a chance. I keep having this feeling that it is not too late for us. People out there that know god, could god be giving me a sign to keep trying? Is it too late for me to try and get his trust back? Could he still be thinking about me when he constantly stares at me? What would I say the next time I see him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): I dont believe in signs, there are coincidences every day in life. If you want to get back together with him go out on a limb and tell him, tell him you know that you contributed to the break up but you have changed, and tell him how....if he needed to change anything about his behavior, then ask for that as well.
Then you wont be guessing what he wants anymore, if you dont get the answer you like then you can move on.
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reader, 19agegap +, writes (26 May 2008):
keep your dignity...if he wants u, he will call you
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