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writes:I had this relationship with a girl for almost a year.We broke up last december, a very painful brake up.2 months ago she txt's me she misses me and want to start hanging out again. As i still loved her very much, I agreed on meeting up. We started to hang out again on a regular base. I noticed in the way she acted around me that she still had strong feelings for me. She even admitted she still loved me and was in love with me. This went on for some weeks. We got even closer, we started kissing again, and got intimate. I really thought we would get to the point of trying things out again, as she seemed very much in love with me again. She even talked about a future with me, she told me her views on it. However, somedays ago, out of the blue she told me that she couldnt continue this way. She said she felt guilty about giving me hope on starting things over again cause she doesnt know if we will be able to. She told me she thought it just wouldnt work out between the two of us, allthough she loves me very much. Now she doesnt want to see me for a while so she can find out if she will miss me and if she really likes me, and sees a future for us.I just dont understand her behaviour, and how she could act so in love and happy with me, if she probably wasnt even sure at all in the beginning of hanging out again. What kinda behaviour is this??I cant stand this insecurity of not knowing what she will say when she's made her mind up, Im rlly suffering :(
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reader, kirsty_123us +, writes (26 May 2008):
Chin up break ups are very hard. big hugs to you.my advice would be leave her to make her own decision give her some space. try going out with your friends etc and have a good time this will keep your mind off the whole situation.As a woman we are all different, your ex seems very insecure about something that has happened which she is finding hard to deal with to just make everything back rosey, she may just need a little time though so back of for a while. i know its hard but you have to for you aswell.Or on the other hand she may have very strong feelings for you but she might not be in love with you anymore she will work this out and you will tooim rubbish with advice on break ups sorry but i hope this helps:)
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