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writes:im 16 i'm pregnant with my bf's kid we've always said that if it happened we'd stay together he hasnt really said anything about it what should i do
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 your bf may of thouhgt that it wasnt going to happen or that ity woukld be easy if you did get pregnat but you have fallen pregnant and now he and you need to face your responsibalty for youtr child
talk to him and see how he is feeling about this more importantly how you feel you are the one carrying the child and you will feel the strain so he has to undersatnd he has to be there for you and to help you and support this baby if he ont talk you have to decide how good this person is for your baby because it will need all of the love it can get and you need all of the support you can get
good luckxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): He's probably too oblivious to how much of a big deal this is. Are you prepared to have a child? Are you going to be capable of bringing it up well with him? It doesn't sound to me like he's supporting you very well, and at this stage in your life, you're going to need a lot of support. I'd advise sitting him down and talking to him about how he's feeling - he's bound to be scared too, he's not carrying the child but it's his and he'll have that responsibility for the rest of his life.
Please think long and hard about whether this child is going to be a benefit or a burden, and talk to him about how he's feeling. It's his kid too, make sure he's happy about the situation. Good luck :]
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