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writes:Are attractive women expected to be more aggressive with men than normal? Most women love to be chased, so are we intimidating to men, or what's the deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 I presume you are an attractive woman and are noticing a lack of chasing?
Might be two reasons. Often people that know they look good act with a certain arrogance. Although that really is to strong a word. Perhaps confidence is better. The problem is that this makes you harder to approach by men who think they are out of your league. Call it a lack of confidence if you like, I call it conservation of energy. No point in chasing a woman you have no hope of ever catching.
But they might you say? Don't matter, it is all in their minds.
Then there is competition. Attractive women are surrounded by attractive men, men who are not that attractive reason that they can't compete, so don't. If you split men into three groups, the uglies, the average and the attractive then oddly enough the more attractive a woman, the fewer men she will have chasing her.
I wouldn't say men are intimidated by attractive women, just that they feel it would be wasted effort to go after them.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Not too sure what you mean, but the word on the street with guys i know, is that women who are possibly guaged as more attractive, tend to be a bit more arrogant, fussy, stuck up?
I happen to feel similar where good looking men are concerned. And there is a definate part of me that finds less attractive men (physically) more appealing to me. Maybe thats why. Arrogant men switch me off.
Probably read your question very wrong, but i gave it a go lol
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