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anonymous
writes:Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know its just a dream but i dnt dream of my man anymore and i feel guilty im cheating in the dreams and when i wake up!! i do care a lot about the uni guy and i miss him when hes not around but this is getting ridiculous!! thanks for any suggestions!!
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (26 May 2008):
 I no what your saying sweetheart I understand you cant change someone else but you can change you...Being alone if you b/f is away will have an affect.....Here is a link it may help it may not but its worth a try love and if you can find a way to get this sorted out for your happiness then do it for you hunny.......
http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html
Message me if you need a chat love take care with love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your answer, maybe it is that the relationship is the same and my bf is away a lot so maybe i just feel lonely but i feel a lot for this guy n im worried that i may have genuine feelings for him...i think about him all the time and he controls my moods without even knowing it. I will try and spice up the relationship bt the problem is it isnt about sex is about emotion and i cnt really make my bf change that n make me feel new, loved and special again...
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (26 May 2008):
Hi Hunny
Someone has caught your eye and you have become infactuated (if thats how you spell it) By him....How is your relationship doing hunny has things started to get routine and do you feel in anyway bored. You are inlove with your b/f your fantasising about another man, You havent cheated sweetheart many a man look in magazines everyday and have a fantasy well and women for that matter....But your fantasy is a real person not someone unavailable..Something must be happening with your relationship for you to be having these feelings sweetheart..Yea its ok to look and even have a little dream thats natural...If this is worrying you and taking over your every thought then work on trying to do something to create a sexy setting with your b/f and blow his mind away and then see if this guy is on your mind sweetheart.. You need some amazing passion popped back into your relationship, We need to keep it going all the time or it kind of fades although you do love that person..Your mind starts to wander of in a dream land and its that something thats missing hunny, we all like a different view that doesnt just go for the landscape looking out the same window everyday seeing the same people doing the same thing can get so routine and make you feel and need something else...I hope that makes sense sweetheart life does not make sense to me most of the time we just have to be true to ourselves and learn from what we come across everyday...YOU TAKE CARE HUNNY WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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