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writes:Hey everyone, just found the site and it looks interesting.I have a question about my girlfriend. We have been together for just over 6 months now and we have had sex. Thing is she hasn't done anything to me. It doesn't bother me much, however sometimes i wish she would do things. Is it bad that i feel like this? I would love to wait for her, and we have great sex, however it would be nice for a bit of attention. Is that bad? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cool Papa +, writes (27 May 2008):
Cool Papa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your responses, i will keep them in mind.
however i didn't really explain the question properly. I apologies. ha.
What i meant was that she has her worries about it, shes scared that she might be bad so she doesn't want to do it. I don't want to pressure her.
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reader, Needed~Advice  +, writes (27 May 2008):
i agree with the previous posts, talking to her and telling her how you feel is definatly a great way, but sometimes that can kind of ruin the moment. i mean if she feels like you both are making love and the emotions are very intense for her she might not be inclined to do things that are less "romantic". try making an evening out of just forplay, try to see how long both of you can last without actual penetration. take turn giving pleasure and affection, and go first, so she knows what she has to live up to lol. try taking a sensual bubble bath, use different props anything to show that you can have as much fun with full blown intercourse. and when she finally finds your spot tell her that you like what shes doing even moan a little to get the mood going, that will feul her motivation and let her know shes on the right path. most men just sit there and dont really say much even though their eyes are rolling back in their heads, woman cant see that... if she knows shes pleasing you, im sure shell be happier to do it.
good luck!!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Hi,
The only way to solve this issue mate is to talk to her.
She may be quite reserved and worried that you will think she is a slut/whore/tramp(take your pick) if she opens up . A lot of people are brought up in households where sex is taboo, it can be very difficult for these people in later life to really let go of their inhibitions.
My suggestion is to talk to her while you are getting intimate not over breakfast or walking the dog. The best time to raise a suggestion to spice things up is when you are caught up in the heat of the moment.
Good luck.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 May 2008):
It isnt bad, everybody has their preferences on what they like and what they dont.
Ask her what turns her on and what she would like you to do to her then assuming you dont mind, do these things for her. Its pretty likely she'll ask you back and then you let her know. Afterall how else will she know unless you tell her.
Good luck
xxx
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