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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey!I am 23 years old, still a virgin and confused with my sexuality. I do not find girls repulsive but I am much more easily exited by the thought of men. However, I am repulsed by the thought of a penis and anal intercourse.When I masturbate I think about a man lying or sitting on top of me, and simply just kissing.Is this kind of thing common? I only ever heard of one other person with the same problem. Please help! Many thanks to you all!
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reader, JTalbott +, writes (26 May 2008):
A high percentage of men that have sex with men rarely or never engage in anal sex.
Whether it's with a man or a woman, the challenge in life is finding someone who can share a life with and make a commitment to. Accepting yourself as you are is the first step in the journey.
Good luck with your adventure.
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reader, unclereg +, writes (26 May 2008):
hi :) i would say that you are probably gay. some gay people really don't like anal sex, but prefer to do other sexual things. when you meet someone special, your feelings might change, and you may accept anal sex as a possibility.but until then, you can explain that you are new to the gay scene, and take things slowly, if he's a nice guy, he won't mind :)
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