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*ummyummy123
writes:So i written before about me an my boyfriend/ex.... whichever it seems to be at times. We are on an off and have been for 3 years now. I know many people dont put up with it an sometimes everyone gets mad at me for going back but i really love this guy. He usually dumps me saying his feelings have changed an then 2 weeks later (i been keeping track...) he always comes back admiting how much of an ass he was and how he still loves me and everything. But now its different cuz we are living together and with another couple to and its hurting me more cuz i got to see him lots. I dont enjoy sitting around waiting for the 2 week mark... i just wanna know if there is anything i can do to get the process moving faster. I want to get him back.. Reply to this Question
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reader, without_reason  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 I think you should stop having him back.
The relationship you're having with him isn't a proper relationship.. You can do a lot better, and being with him isn't helping you find the guy that will love you no matter what..
Stop being his back-up. He knows you will always be there when he finishes with you.. Show him that that is not you! Be stronger than that!
Move out.. Meet new people and move on from him..
I know how you feel, I have been in this kind of relationship before, and when I got out.. I was upset, of course I was, but I got over it, and now I know that it is the best thing I could have done.
I know this is hard for you to hear.. But it is my opinion.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do.. and take care
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