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writes:right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that i could be pregnent, i last had a period 2 weeks before i had sex. i havnt told anyone, i cant tell my parents as i know they wont trust me ever again. so please help me, could i be pregnent?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Wow. I got the pill in Northern Ireland once and it cost me a bomb. Lucky girl. :D
Hope you're ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTRhanks again, I went to the pharmacist today and they give me the pill free of charge. Thank you for all your advice. It was very much appreciated.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 The pill taken within 12 hours gives 98% Successful result.. !! 12-24 gives 75% , 24-48 gives 60% and 48-72 hrs is 52% successful.. !! The pill is available for Rs.75 in India.. Which is approx close to US $2 ..
Plz take a pregnancy test if you get the following symptoms..
(1) Urge to pee more often than before.. Almost twice every night.. !!
(2) Morning Sickness ( urge to vomit, not only in the morning as the name suggests.. It can be any time of the day)
(3) Sore breasts (Althought it can be the outcome of some Raw sex)
(4) Darkenning of the area around nipples..
(5) Too much fatigue... You feel like sleeping all day
(6) Sudden increase in vaginal discharge
(7) The MOST COMMON, if u miss a period or it gets late by a week.. !!
I wish you're Not Pregnent.. And you won't be... Just take the pill and hope for the best.. !! ;)
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reader, :):):) +, writes (27 May 2008):
It depends where you go on whether you have to pay. A friend of mine went to Boots and they gave it her for free so that could be a good bet. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Aw. You're so sweet. I hope you're ok.
The pill can be taken up till 72 hours after sex, that is true, but I hope you also know that the longer you leave it the less affective it is.
I have taken the morning after pill a few times now. If you take it on the third day (Just before 72 hours) then I believe that in the stage of your cycle it will be around 50% effective. If you do get it the morning after then it can be around 90-99% effective.
You will have to pay for it. Depending on where you are depends on how expensive it is, but I'd take 30 pounds to make sure you have enough.
Good luck sweety. X
Remember get up early and get it as soon as you can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for all your replies and all the advice. I didnt realise you could take the morning after pill up to 72 hours after sex.That just shows how well schools teach you about sex education nowadays, all was we got told was that girls have periods.
I am going to go to the chemist tomorrow and ask for the pill, does anyone know if I will have to pay for it?
Well thanks, I really appreciate all the help. If anyone has anymore advice please to reply as it could help me.
I will keep everyone updated and tell everyone how it goes.
Thanks again!
Wish me luck!!! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your help so far I really appreciate it. I am going to go to the chemist tomorrow and ask for a morning after pill as its my last chance to take it tomorrow. So if anyone else has any advice for me please do reply back. Thanks again, I will update you all with how it went tomorrow.
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (26 May 2008):
 there is a chance yopu coukld be pregnant but dont wrorry straight away taking the penis out just before ejaculating is not a way of not getting pregnant thats what some stupid people think wich is totally wrong your next step should off been to take the morning after pill wich you didnt so you need to get an apointment with your gp see if your pregnant and if you are you need to tell your parents because you need support and love at the moment
if you arent pregnant you need to seruiously think of using controception in the future because it could happen again and also if you are pregnant you need to think if you want this baby or not because i have had friends ij the same situation and they werent preganat but it was a terifying thing for them to think they were and they learned fromt the experience
good luck xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Listen to me if you have read the natural famly planning book then you will know that a women can only have the chance to get pregnant four days out of the month i hope that what i have said is some comfort to you also i strongly suggest you read this book.last and finaly i want to state that if you take the morning after pill you are prventing life because you are pevrenting the sperm from making a new persion.i hope you wont get get pregnant but if you do do not get an abortion not just because you are taking an incont life but also because it hurts you you will be in extreme pain for weeks and weeks and long after the pain is gone you will have an even worse pain the pain of you conchis burning.And finaly if you are pregnant give your baby up for adoption because there is always some one how despratly wants to have a baby and cant so just be glad you can have a baby.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Your most fertile period is between 14 to 16 days after your first day of period.
His precums can contain 300,000 sperms and it only need one to conceive.
Whether you will be lucky or not , nobody knows until you miss your next period.
If you had sex and you want to prevent any pregnancy , then
you need to take the morning after pill which is effective for 72 hours.
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (26 May 2008):
You can STILL take the morning Pill... Take it within 72 hrz after having sex.. !!
Coming to the Point of getting Pregnant.. !! Yes, you can get pregnent..!! This is the MOST UNSAFE TIME of having sex.. 14 days from your period you are meant to be on the Highest probability of being pregnent.. !!
The fact that he pulled out reduces the chance though.. !! There are very few occassions when Pre-cum does cause Pregnency.. !!
You need to calm down as when you think you're pregnent, everything seems to give wrong signals..
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reader, kate_black +, writes (26 May 2008):
Okay, 1st of all you must calm down as before you know for certain if you are pregnant or not you cannot do anything about it. Most pregnancy test nowadays can be taken fairly often, so find out and get one. Perhaps even buy two to be on the safe side.
Lastly, just a word for the future. If you are consider all your options and tell your parents in a calm manner. If you are not pregnant be more careful in the future.
Good Luck
Kate xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Sorry sweety, but what you did was VERY silly.
There is such thing as pre-come. This is when the penis gives off a little sperm duting sex, this means that even though he pulled out before he came, he could still have left a little spern inside of you, this is enough to get pregnant by. You are also at the peek-time of concieving. It's not too late for you to get the pill. It will be less affactive seeing as you are taking it a little late, but if you get it straight away in the morning then it may help prevent you from concieving.
Try to stay calm over the next few weeks as being stressed about being pregnant can stop your periods.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 May 2008):
Well the good news is, the morning after-pill can be taken up to 72 hours after having sex (3 days) so hurry up and see your doctor or a chemist. It may be embarrassing but they deal with this almost every day.
You might want to think about getting checked out for STDS at a family planning clinic too.
Remember everyone makes mistakes and you have learnt from this.
Good luck honey
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