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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi im im a relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years we have four children and my problem is since my 3rd child my partners sex life has gone we have done it one it 13 months and now i am get fustrated and think its time to leave what can i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): ok first of all, have you talked to your girlfriend at all about this problem? Have you asked her how shes feeling? How shes coping? By the sounds of it your pretty young (22 -25) and have 3 kids! How much of the house work, cleaning, tidying, laundry, cooking, parenting, diaper changing, midnight nightmare comforting, sick child vomiting allover you do you do?
Because with three kids, your gf is really pretty exhausted and if youre not helping her out with that stuff, believe me she wont have the energy for sex! :-D
The last thing on your mind should be leaving... seriously, you have three young kids and your problem is that your gf doesnt want sex... by the time you have kids you should be committed enough to eachother that you can talk through this sort of problem and work it out.
Maybe you could try getting a babysitter, and a hotel room, take her for a proper date, and out of the house so you can have some together time without worrying about the kids and put the spark back in your relationship! and take things from there. Dont expect miracle cures, but work on loving eachother and building up a sexual relationship outside of kids and exhaustion and all that and have fun. But seriously, leaving is the wrong thing to do. Dont you want your kids to have a dad?
anyways, im not trying to judge, just saying theres a million other options! :-D
Message me if you wanna chat! :-D
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