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writes:Hey!I am not attracted to genetalia of men nor women. The only thing I find sexually attractive in women are eyes and running my hands through their hair.The thing that really excites me is the thought of a man sitting on my face and giving me a hand job. Also I like the idea of a man coming home from work and smothering me with his foot when he takes his shoe off. Besides this I like more normal things like kissing and touching everywhere except the penis.What is wrong with me? Are there other men out there that like this stuff or am I one of a kind? Does this make me gay?If I am one of a kind, does that mean I'll be lonely?Thanks to all the kind and sympathetic people who help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you all for replying! It has been such a help! I have decided to experiment with myself and I chat to other gay men on a website (gaydar.com). I have found out that I am gay and through chatting to others, they think this turn on for me sounds cool (well about 3/4 of them do). :-D
Thanks so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you all for replying! It has been such a help! I have decided to experiment with myself and I chat to other gay men on a website (gaydar.com). I have found out that I am gay and through chatting to others, they think this turn on for me sounds cool (well about 3/4 of them do). :-D
Thanks so much!
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reader, secondbestinthis  +, writes (27 May 2008):
'Bi-Sexual', 'Gay' and 'Straight' don't mean anything. They are just labels. All that matters is what you do with the person you're with, no matter the sex. Don't worry about 'being lonely,' because someone ALWAYS comes along, especially when you're not looking. Concentrate on 'love' rather than 'sex.' Sex should be secondary in a relationship (i should take my OWN advice ;) ). If you find someone that you love and they love you back, then any sexual turn on you have will be more than fine with that person, and they will enjoy experimenting/exploring it with you. (and genitalia ARE ugly! LOL)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Don't worry, everyone is different and into different things. Some people may be put off by what you like, but that doesn't mean you should be ashamed. I bet there are plenty of things that other people do that you wouldn't like.
You don't have to be alone. There are many people who will be sitting at home thinking the same thing because they like different things too.
Maybe you could look for internet chat rooms where people like the same kind of thing you do. Then you wont feel as alone and isolated sexually.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 May 2008):
Plenty of men get confused about what they really want its just part of life. Everyone has fantasies and fetishes, as long as they dont do anyone any harm then its fine.
You dont have to choose to be straight or gay, just do what feels right and follow your heart.
Go out and meet different people, there is someone out there for everyone, you wont be lonely.
xxx
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