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I want to ask her out but I don't know how to do it.

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Question - (1 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i work at a pizzaria, and there is this girl who comes in alot to get pizza, well i would love to ask her out or get her number, but shes only in the store for about 2 minutes, and everyone is around so they would definatly hear me ask her out, which would embarrass me becuase they would make it hell!

She knows i like her from our cashier i was thinking of putting a note in the pizza box the next time she gets food, taped on the box so when she opens it up there it is, and have my number on it.

What do you all think?, if you were in her shoes would you call, or would you think i was weird and never call?

P.S. i think she likes me atleast a little.

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntWhat about a note saying nothing more than "You're the most beautiful girl who comes in here" - no name, no phone number. Arouse her interest. Take your time. Be a bit different from anyone else who has ever asked her out.

Then, maybe, next time your note gives her your name and asks "Would you like my phone number?"

Try it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

Nothing ventured, nothing gained! You could also try handing her a pad of those sticky post-it notes with your name and number on it followed by the word 'Yours?', along with a pen for her write down her details before handing it back to you. 2 minutes is ample time to get your message across I should think.

If she felt embarrassed or awkward about coming in to your shop, in the knowledge that you fancy her, surely she'd go to a different pizzeria? Maybe she comes regularly just to see your smiling face light up when she walks through the door? Maybe she fancies you too? Maybe she's hoping you're going to make a move on her? If you don't, maybe she'll give up and buy burgers instead, which won't do her complexion any good at all.

Ignore the piss-takers, they're only jealous of your good looks and personality.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

I don't think that is a good idea..because if she doesn't open that pizza box..and her father open it..?

So..it would be better when she will come again..you can go out for a minute,,just to make a cigarette..or to make an important call..just the boss there to leave you..and when she will came out give her the number as you wish..talking to her or whatever you want..

Good luck

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