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Is my ex running a scam with my phone?

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Question - (1 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was right in the middle of something at work when my cell phone rang....looking at the caller ID it was my OWN cell phone number.

I didn't pick it up because I thought my phone must be acting up. I put it in my drawer and went back to work. Then I a few minutes later my ex (who hasn't called me for 3 years) called 4 times literally right after my "own" missed call.

I know this must sound crazy but he was always a shady type of guy and is it possible that he was doing some type of phone scam???

I either need to block him or get a new cell phone! please help me make sense of this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I really appreciate all your help and answers with my question. None of my friends had ever heard of this or even believed me until they saw the "received call" on my phone. It's just a really odd thing but I'm glad I asked someone about it because it seems like he could very well be pulling a scam. My phone is shut off now and tomorrow I will head down to my providers store and ask them about it. Thanks again for all your help! =)

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (1 May 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntContact your cell phone service provider right away, tell them about this now! And turn off your cell phone until you know what's going on and what to do about it. I think the last poster has some very good advice here!

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A female reader, codelady98 Nigeria +, writes (1 May 2008):

Hi dear. Yes, the scenario you just described is very real. It's possible to mask your phone number with another number from any part of the world. All it takes is some know-how and the right equipment. I have done a lot of research on the subject of internet fraud, and what you describe is among the least of several dreadful tools that scammers employ. Don't be sacred, from what you say your ex might very well be using your name and number to achieve some dubious ends. Here's what to do next: first change your number immediately! If you have any electronic services linked to it, especially banking and financial services, by all means notify the customer care units involved at once. Email all your contacts except your ex that your number has changed. Divert all calls from your old number to the new one to see if your number ever calls again. Chances are, there's something shady going on. Remain calm and observe subsequent events. Just keep your identity and integrity safe. Good luck!

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A female reader, RoxxiSanders United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

It is possible that your ex husband could be running a scam but without any evidence you cannot point the finger at him. Have you tried talking to your ex husband about it? If not then you should. You also have to ask yourself how many times it has happened? If it happens again, you may be better getting a new phone and a new number and don't tell your ex about it. Good luck.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

No idea, you'd have to talk to someone who knows about the technology.

Why not head to a phone repair shop and ask them. You could always buy a new sim or get your number changed without too much hassle.

Good Luck!! xx

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