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writes:hi, there is this guy that ive have been on date with and he is really nice. but as ive got to know his friends i have started to like his best friend more. we get on a lot better and people have said that we go better together. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Well well you remind me of myself..when i was 17..i made a relationship with a guy only because my friends said he is so so so beautiful.you know teenagers!So, i react as a stupid one and i made a relationship with him..but i realised that i was in love with his best friend.He was in love with me too(but he couldn't do something with the girl of his best friend).I decide it..!i wanted an end with my bf..as i did!But as a result i didn't make something with his best friend only because my ex-bf..was a nice guy..and i didn't want to hurt him..and the other one NOT to lose his best friend..I know i have a nice heart..ahahahahhaMy mother says learn with the mistakes of others..so learn from me..if you want his friend don't make something with him!!Friendship for guys is more important than a girl(well don't see my situation as his b.f told me that he has a crash on me ahhahaha).So you will be clear when you will make a relationship..with the other!!!Good Luck
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reader, lexilou +, writes (1 May 2008):
 First of all forget what other people think and decide if you really want a relationship with the first guy as it sounds as though he's not really pushing the right buttons. Dont start dating his mate immediately but leave some time before you make a move on him but be prepared for it to be awkward x
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reader, Aunt tilly +, writes (1 May 2008):
 First of all the guy you,ve already had a date with, don,t make arrangements to go out again if your not that interested in him. Don,t lead the poor lad on into thinking that you do. You may like his friend but does he just enjoy your company or does he want to go out with you, I would check this out before you make any futher decisions. Remember to let the other guy down gently just in case he really likes you an awful lot, and be careful that it is not going to cause any problems between him and his friend, if you were to go out with him. He may have friends with the other guy for some time. I hope this is helpful.
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