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He says he really likes me and insists that I do not forget him... but he is in a relationship already!...

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Question - (1 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2008)
A female Saint Vincent and the Grenadines age 30-35, *asasanti writes:

there is this guy i really like and he likes me to and was afraid to tell me so and i was supposed to be his girlfriend but this girl ask him to be her boyfriend and he told her yes.. even if he is with her he often told me that he loves me and he wants me but i told him i will have to stop talkin to him to get him out of my mind and move on with my life

he told me plz do not do it coz he really really like me...i am so confused i do not know what to do can u all give me advice plz

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (1 May 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntYou know what to do. "i told him i will have to stop talkin to him to get him out of my mind and move on with my life"

Your own words, listen to them.

Of course he likes you. To stick around and be his toy. He is either a player and wants to have you both and the reason starts with the letter L but it ain't love.

Or he is a collector. He is collecting hearts, they sound nice but really, he just loves the idea of you pining away for him while he is with his girlfriend.

Do what you planned to do and move on.

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (1 May 2008):

cute angel agony auntwell he likes you and u like him then whats the problem..this girl he is dating huh ask him to be a man and tell that girl that he cant be with her anymore..all this is just ruining three lives..may be that girl will be heart broken but we have no choice here ..its better late than never.she needs to know that her so called boyfriend is in love with someone else..and if he cant do that then ask him to forget you, cause he being with his girlfriend and liking u makes no sense at all hun!!

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A female reader, Dannii-oxo United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

Forget him,

This may seem hard but its the best thing you can do.

A lot of boys are like this.

Want one thing, but have another.

He seems to be playing around with you both.

So, if i were you, i would move on

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A female reader, X-Imi-X United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

X-Imi-X agony auntHeya,

I would be very put off if a lad said that to me,

One minuet he likes you and the next hes got a girlfriend!

I wouldnt wait for him,

He sounds a bit of a playa,

If he really really liked you,

He wouldnt of said yes to the other girl now would he,

Dont worry though,

Theres PLENTY more fish in the sea!

Hope this helped x

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A female reader, kimblebee90 United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

kimblebee90 agony auntWell you can tell you really like this guy, and it will be hard if you decide 2 do what I'm bout to tel ya. I have been ere b4, n I had to walk away to try n get on with things instead of bein hung up on him all the tym cos he was with the other girl. I sed listen if you want me, you can have me, but get rid of the other girl. But you can't have both because I can't stick around with you tellin me you lvoe me all the time n i cant have u. So he ended it with the other girl n erythin was ace. Mayb yu should try the same and see wat happens??

Keep me posted on wat happens

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