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writes:My girlfriend and I've been having sex a few times. The problem we're facing here that though I give her every sexual satisfaction(and she herself says she's really happy by that), she doesn't feels likely of giving her head, a blowjob that is. I openly asked her and she doesn't have a reply for that. But when she's extremly aroused by my activities, she agrees for doing it but that too very negligible manner(as if she's doing just because she knows I need it). Plz help me out in this... thanks in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot for your advices guys. Yes, you'r right maybe that would be the reason that she's still inexperienced and maybe she's not sure of everything.. But as for age, she's 2 years older than me.. So, what would be the solution for this "inexperienced" thing? I mean, you dont mean she'll remain like that forever, do you??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Quite simply, if she doesn't like it she'll get no pleasure from it and it's therefore not going to be a part of your lovemaking. If she does it for any other reason than that she wants to, it's not lovemaking - it's just having sex.
Ask yourself if you would feel like doing something you found distasteful just to please someone else?
If it would help, try suggesting strawberry flavoured condoms.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Lots of women dont like and forcing the issue will make it worse. Would you want one in your mouth!! Keep it as a treat once in a while and dont ask for it every time. Find other ways she can pleasure you maybe with her hands. It may be that she is still young and inexperienced and not really sure what to do with it x
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