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writes: I don't know what i want or what to do! me and my ex have been broken up for about over a month now and we haven't spoken much coz i stopped talkin to him then he randomly asked me why i stopped talkin to him n i said wen i hav somethin to say i will talk.and now i keep gettin messages from him askin if i've moved on if i'm seein someone new and if i like his friends? =S and i don't even know how to feel about it, i don't think about my ex that often because i'm always busy but wen i do i get like this, i get confused and messed up! my head is a muddled! its a big big mess! lol do you think that if u wanted to be with someone, u wouldn't question it? u would jus know coz it'd feel like the right thing to do?do u think mayb i still wana be with him cause its the easy road? because its a natural thing (i only think about bein with him again wen i really really think bout it coz otherwise i don't mind otherwise i would rather jus let it happen, i have no effort to try get us back together but i know if he tried hard enough he could get me to love him again and i wouldn't stop it)so please tell meis anyone else going through this too? i'm so confused =( i was with him for 3 years btw, we had a fantastic relationship we had our ups and downs we've been through heaps so i don't think we would ever lose contact completelyever since we've broken up we've talked about it and we both feel lost, like we duno who we are anymore and we are incomplete. =( arghhhhhhhhhHELP! HELP! HELP!
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reader, Aunt tilly  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Your probably feeling confused and all muddled up because as yous ay you dont think about him when your busy, which would imply that you are just trying to get on with your life or you are moving on. He is obviously struggling and cant move on, and after being together for such a long time he is finding it hard being without you. If you dont want to be with him then dont make any contact with him at all, that way there is no mixed signals going out to him giving hm hope. See then once you,ve got your self sorted out if you still feel the same, and it will also give him the same oppurtunity to see if he can move on. If either of you cant then maybe you should both be together, what will be, will be if its true love then you will find the way back to each other. x
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reader, superhoopschick  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Perhaps u still need each other. especially if he is still contacting u. If you really want to get over him you should stop complete contact with him and keep urself busy. I understand that ur relationship was long, but it sometimes just needs to be done. You can never get over him if you are still friends. But it sounds like you two really still care about each other. Just tell him if he keeps asking u this stuff, maybe u two werent meant to been broken up...try hanging out once or a date and if there is still a spark maybe something will happen, but if not, then u just got to get away from him.
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