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writes:Help!I need some advice. Ive read all the stories about married men and am past all of it, Im past all of the hurt...and am now in the realization stage that he will never leave her, or the newborn baby he JUST had. The problem is, in previous forums, I am reading that I have to just walk away, or stop all contact with him, and that will either make him realize he doesnt want to live without me, or make me realize I need to move on...I am READY to do this, but I feel that it is impossible for me because he is my boss, I see him 5 days a week. I really don't want to leave my job...We also have to interact several times a day because I work directly under him. How can I stop crying every day and begin to stop hurting when he is always right there... What can I do? I dont want to be miserable anymore :(
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 May 2008):
 I don't think you have any choice BUT to get another job. You'll just be miserable staying at your current job.
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reader, Aunt tilly  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 I know its hard for you and it doesn't help that you work with the man, but unfortunately it will probably take time for you to get over him. You have to remember you are not a light switch we don,t turn our feelings on and off like light switches, so be kind to yourself you,ve made your choice so you.ve over come one hurdle ok. Take things slowly rome was,nt built in a day, try and get your self involved in something after work maybe or at the weekends with friends or family, or just doing things for you things that will cheer you up. Your hardest bit will be at work but you are going to have to be strong with yourself, try not to wear your heart on your sleeve as they say. You enjoy your job so concentrate on that nothing is impossible love you will see the light at the end of the tunnel it just takes time. Be patient with yourself.
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