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writes:Have a nice month to everyone!!Well what will you prefer most?: a nice relationship with a man or a woman at the same age with you..or with a man or a woman older than you?I like a guy which is older than me 10 years!I'm just wondering if our relationship will have a problem..i know everything like "love don't have age"i don't have a problem with that that's why i'm in love with him..But, maybe his friends will have a problem..because i'm younger as my "lovely man" says.To make you understand i'm not with him..because i'm wondering what his friends will thought about me..?I don't know what to do..to think about his friends or to see my life and what i want with my man?Thanks for your help... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThaks for you answers..I know that i shouldn't listen the opinion of others,but they are his friends i mean..with those that he is all the time...That's all on my mind!My man is very nice..smart..he would never hurt me i know that!To GothPod:I don't think that he wants to married me and to have a family(i don't want a family either)..we don't even have a relationship yet.If i love him how can i make a relationship with one in my age?I can't do that because i would be sad..I always think of him..he makes me smile..you know those things when Love starts..Thanks...
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reader, blondie2007  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 I know what your saying about the friend thing, because im in the same situation, it gets pretty complitcated. If he respects you enough and loves you then if his friends have anything to say about use then he will tell them straight. Guys older sometimes like to keep things quite for a while and this ends up lasting until use split, but on the other hand if hes not ashamed to be seen with you then i would say this isnt really a problem. You shouldnt care about what other people think, its about what you want. Your feelings no one elses. I think you need to think about things, sometimes you have to take a risk most the time things turn out pretty perfect. Im sure if he feels exactly the same way, other people wont bother use. Use always have one and other, people are always going to talk its just the way life is.
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reader, love girl  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 i know a lot of couples who their age differance is between 10-15 years , they got married and they are still together so age doesntr really matter
and if you're conirned about his friends' opinion , dont ...
because its your life not theirs , if you and the guy are happy and both of you dont mind , why care ?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (1 May 2008):
 It depends on your age, 16 to 26 seems like a huge age gap but 26 to 36 or 36 to 46 doesnt sound as bad. Age has nothing to do with love and everyone is different. I thought hubbie was early 40's when we met (i was 35) and I normally go for older guys, turned out he was 32 yet he acted and looked much more mature. Its not about his friends they should accept you for who you are not your age - unless of course your only 13!! Go for it x
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