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writes:i recently discovered that my wife is watching porn when i'm at work.is this normal? is she doing it for personal pleasure because she is'nt satisfied by me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): She could be doing it for personal pleasure but don't slut-shame her, beat her up, and/or ruin her porn collection (if she has any), especially if she's looking at those other guys in porn. She could charge you with domestic violence and put a restraining order on you. So it's best to communicate with her in a respectful, non-violent manner about her porn viewing habits.
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reader, capecodman  +, writes (1 November 2010):
my wife watches porn with me always
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Your wife looks at porn, no problem as long as she is keeping you happy in bed. Women look at porn for the same reason that men do. It's sexy, it turns them on. It's got nothing to do with you, she dosen't compare you to the men she sees, she dosen't think about them at all. It's a sexy thing, she probably looks at it because she has time on her hands. It makes her feel sexy and it makes her feel hot. Porn is sometimes a private thing, so don't worry if she dosen't want to share. If you want to you can buy some "mild mainstream porn" and ask her if she wants to look at it with you, and ask her if she has seen any positions or things that turn her on, that she might like to try in bed with you. You are very lucky, you have married a woman who likes sex a lot, and isn't ashamed or frightened about it. Give thanks and give her a big hug and a kiss. She dosen't think about cheating on you, but she is learning how to please you and herself, as well as becoming sexy and hot.
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reader, docB +, writes (16 August 2008):
Your wife watches porn while you are at work because you are a lucky son-of-a-gun and don't even know it. Don't be jealous of a video tape! Take this and run where it goes! If you can get your wife to talk to mine........uh... that would be great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): I'm guessing for the same reasons you watch it...
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reader, rorowes +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Did you bust her at it, or did she tell you about it? Anything secret is not good. Communication is the key.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Don't lose sleep over this. There is a very wide gap between watching porn and cheating; plus, watching porn does not mean she wants to be in a porn movie. She probably does it because she is bored and her brain gets a kick out of it. People watch scary movies -- like Jigsaw -- all the time. But that does not mean they fantasy about being hunted or tortured. All it means is our brain gets a kick out of it.
You can also watch the ones she watches and try the positions together.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Well, we now know what she does while you're at work. More to the point would be what she does when you get home from work!
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reader, pyan +, writes (1 May 2008):
Hi
ask her, how did you find out.
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