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writes:me and my boyfriend(well ex now) have been dating for seven months. we both love eachother more then anything we broke up about two weeks ago it was a stupid argument and for the first week he regreted it and said he wanted to get back togather, but he really hurt me so i needed just a week to get myself together. after a week he just seemed to lose interest in me.like i wasnt important anymore. so i had him over one night to tell him i wanted to get back togather. he sat there awile and the said he didn't want to. he said that in our week apart he suddenly just lost the desire to be with me.we both still love each other. i hate being away from him, but i dont know what to do to get him back. nothing seems to work. i'm trying the whole "play like it doesn't matter" thing, but im scared it is just pushing him away more. i just dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): it is a tough one - could you perhaps send him a card brifely stating that you still love him and miss him and have made a mistake.. and that you don't want to pressure him anymore but that should he change his mind you are there for him??
It may be a naff idea but rather than saying the odd thing just present it to him in black and white and leave it up to him???
Than don't contact him leave the ball in his court, that way you aren't pressuring or smothering him.
Don't contact him again and see what happens.
It will be hard and i feel bad for you but i guess its his choice now.. just do lots to occupy your time.
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reader, Deema  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Read 'The Rules' honey. Get on and make your own life the best it can be. Leave him alone. The more you chase him the less he'll want you. Just act like you were dead, gone from his life. If he's interested he'll come back, if not .......... you got your answer. Lotsaluck xxx
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