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writes:I like a guy in my year at college, I'm 18 he's 17 but it feels like we are both the same age, anyway age doesn't really matter. I really like him but I think he thinks of me as a little sister. Is there any way I can show him that I'm not and I am dateable??I dont want to ask him out anywhere I'm too shy but I just want to discreetly let him know that I'm dateable and I want him to like me in a girlfriend way and not a sisterly way.ahhh please help!! xxx j
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): I think what you need to do is either:a) make your feelings clear for him if you think he'll react positivelyb) stop being friends with him if it is hurting yourself, and perhaps try a different approach with him? suggest going out in the evening etc. and hopefully he'll get the messageremember that he may turn around and want to just remain friends, which i think is really hard to accept but it may be worth just keeping him as a friend or brother material.don't try and get with another guy and score for jealousy, you may end up driving him away completely.hope this helps, and good luckxox
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