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*attie90
writes:quick my boyfriend wants 2 go stay a couple nights w/his friends but im ovulating n we've been tryin 2 get prego 4 awhile soo im tryin 2 figure out how 2 make him stay home without makin him feel guilty and without him thinkn tht im mad abt it or tht im doin it on purpose help plz thnx Reply to this Question
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 There's a proper order for things. Courtship, Engagement, Marriage, then Babies.
Having a baby is a huge responsibility and expense that lasts the rest of your life.
Have you and your boyfriend discussed marriage and children?
Do both of you have a college education and well-paying jobs? Do you both live on your own and are able to financially support yourselves?
What are the reasons you want to have a baby?
I hope you'll take the time and answer these questions and really think about the reasons you want to have a baby.
Best wishes! xo
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reader, bday121 +, writes (22 June 2008):
 If he wants a child too then this shouldn't be a problem. Explain to him what you've explained to us and he'll understand. Of course, you know, there's always next month!
However, if he does NOT want a child, or doesn't know what you're planning, I seriously reccommned that you stop. It's just not right to decieve someone like that. And if you're trying to get pregnant to make him not break up with you...well, that's just a dumb idea and it will NOT work. So please don't do that to him! I'm just saying this because I know a lot of women do these things. Plus, you're both so young, don't rush into anything that you're not ready for!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): If he wants a child as well, tell him what you've told us.
If he doesn't, don't try to trick him into becoming a parent when you are both so young. Be sure this is something you want, because kids change everything.
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