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writes:Okay sooi dont know whats wrong with me. but i think i am in love with my history teacher.i just graduated middle school.and i miss him sooo much.I use to act so mean to him. and avoid him.but deep down i cantstop thinking of him. i dream about him every night. i feel so weird. like a stalker. Also he's inspired me soo much and now i want to be a history teacher. But sometimes when i was around him. he would like pick on me in a flirty type of way. and sometimes i would catch him staring straight at me. so it makes me feel liike he likes me too. I sometimes think and i know that he thinks of me too.its so weird.wat do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Try to look at the long term possibility's of this relationships. If it were to happen he would loose his job, be prosecuted for lewd acts of molestation. Is all that really something you want for your self, and this person you love? Try to remember, that just because if feels right for you, that society may not feel the same way, and there are some heavy repercussions for that. I pray that you will make the mature decision, and walk away. For both you and the teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): uncle Phil i know your sick and tired of these questions posted but if you dont have nothing good to say then dont say it at all because thats pretty rude,it seems that you dont have feelings do you??im sorry if i sound rude or naive but to me thats rude,this is a site to help people,not critise them in a cruel way.well as for you,i cant say forget about the teacher because it is very difficult,i know because i myself have feelings for a history teacher,but you cant do anything about it.its hard i know but what can you do??hes a teacher if he would act upon feelings(if he had them)he could lose what he has worked so hard for,his career.and if you love him you wouldnt want that do you.you would want what is best for him.what makes him happy.well my situation is alittle different than yours but all i have to say is to find new hobbies,meet people,go out with your friends and as time goes by you'll see what life is all about,your young so enjoy life the best way possible.i know its hard but "time heals pain" and soon the pain will go away.hope i helped in anyway.and hey who knows ither you will find someone like him or you will meet him again in the future.life has alot of twist.take care.-feel free to p.m me anytime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Forget about the teacher; he is way to old for you;
go out with your friends and have fun; make friends with a guy your age and start discovering what "love" and relationships is about.
You are not in "love" with the teacher; you are daydreaming about him; it is a fantasy!
Start thinking about your studies and reality;
Go get a boy that can give you affection,and attention!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Is there a way of bookmarking that answer for future reference? It would be very useful indeed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): I know Uncle Phil, but love for your teacher is just something that happens when your young..... sigh....
STANDARD ANSWER FOR : I AM IN LOVE WITH MY TEACHER.
Do nothing. He is your teacher, he is not able to love you, he can not ask you on a date, he cannot be your boyfriend. It is illegal for a teacher to love you, he will lose his job, he will go to prision.
Find some friends and go and have fun, study hard and pass your exams, get a hobby, find some new interests. Forget about the love you have for your teacher, because there is nothing you can do.
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (21 June 2008):
 Hi,
It's difficault to say this any other way, but flirting with teachers is a very dangerous game. It's best to ignore it, or become friends, the way you're friends with your parents friends. You don't want to get into a relationship like this. It'll all end in tears... :'(
Bye Bye,
Jelly
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Oh God! Not another one!
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