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age
30-35,
*lass
writes:To dear cupid,i am having a conflict. i have found my bright sunshine. he make me happy all of the time. i love his personalities. we actually have alot in common.so we chatted through messages for about 2 months already and we've decided to meet with each other today 21.06.08(i just want to share my most important day).i was very happy.he told me he was too. i myself taught my interest in him was getting stronger. but then when we met just evening. he didn't smile or said hello to me. instead he looked at me the way my aunt had to clean my diapers when i was little. hmm...and then, i started to get so shy because i have a set of ugly smile. because my teeth are appart=( and i'm putting a big burden to my dad because of the braces fees.so i can't even get myself to talk to him. and then just now after dinner, he would rather go to sleep than to talk to me. i am so sad.he doesn't sound like the boy i really like before. i don't know where else to share my problems with, for my mum is not here. i wish he would accept me for how i am willing to accept him. for once i thought i've found my true friend who i can share my love. so please dear cupid...tell me what to do? should i still fall for him or should i move on? because i really actually love him...my knees are weak and my heart feels so...broken-
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): Don't despair Glass (nice name the way, it reassures us you don't like lies) Feel comfort in the fact that there are three people in this world who care enough about you to feel interested in your situation.
We know he's not the right guy, but becaue we are older, we also know that you will find someone else. It was a good decision for you to check out this guy online, but you can only gain an impression over the computer. This guy was not for you, but all the aunts and uncles here are convinced that one day you will find somebody better. Lift your head up high, do you think we would answer your questions if we didn't like you. You are a wonderfull human being, keep your heart protected untill you find the guy that treats you with the respect that you deserve. Blessings, Take Care of You, I wish you good luck.
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reader, Glass +, writes (5 July 2008):
Glass is verified as being by the original poster of the question hmm..i appreciate u guy's advices..i thought i'm never gonna found someone to give me or apen me a path..i am so lost..but thanks to u guys...i am now atleast im feeling alot better than before...thankyou=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Hi Glass,
Great name by the way, I have a friend that has a similar name. Anyway, I'm sorry your feeling so sad. That's the problem when you start caring for somebody you met online, when the reality of them in person is very different. The guy you met online was kind, funny and supportive, but in real life he's rude, unkind and unfriendly. These things happen, this man is not for you. Be glad you had his freindship and be glad for the time you shared together, but your relationship is now over because in reality you don't suit each other at all. Hugs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): No no, no need to feel heart broken.
Yes, I understand you are feeling a little down and dissapointed, sure; you expected more from the meeting;
But vow, now you have to listen carefully;
You have only know each other for 2 months sending text messages, you have only meet todya for the first time;
you were shy; have you though about it that he might have been very nervous and shy too?
Wipe the tears now, see what will happen in the next few days;
is he going to contact you again; continue chatting; maybe arrange more meetings;
hang in ther for a little while, stay friends and see what develops;
if nothing, sure then move on;
but for now; don;t be so quick to decide; shame give the poor guy some time;
Be patient; dry the tears and see what happens!
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