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writes:i was with my bf for 6months then we both decided we needed a break from each other but we still stayed friends (with benefits. This continued for about 3months and then he suggested we got back together properly so we did. Four months on and he has dumped me again. His best friend has told me that he dumped me so that he didnt cheat on me while he was on holiday and now that he has had his holiday he wants me back. I do really love him and cant stop thinking bout him. However i have now got interest from another guy i like but am stuck on whether i should give my ex a second chance help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Run Sister Sue Run!!!! This man or may I say boy, has no respect for you. To keep you as a "Friend with Benefits" tells where his morals lie. All he is thinking about is sex. You deserve a man who loves you while he is on vacation or not. You are a Lady, and deserve to be treated as such.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): in my opinion you should move on you have tare on and off with him,hes not worth it,i say you should move on and hey who knows probably this new guy you like will be 10x better than your ex....
i cant say forget about him because its hard to forget about someone who you have in your heart and mind but give yourself some time okay....time heals.
hopei helped,take care
-Maria
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reader, lyd_foster +, writes (21 June 2008):
 Wow this is the exact situate i have been in, well i still have been
me and my bouyfriend have broken up and got back together
and i always said to myself that i will get over him and i did go out with a different guy and that didnt work
But i love him too much
and now its 3 and a half years down the line and we are truely in love. We have gotten over all the breaking up stuff and cheating and it is working.
So i think that you should just go with your gut feelings and if it was meant to be then you will end up together
Good Luck rember its your life!!! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): I suggest you forget about the ex; you have tried a fe times; it did not work; MOVE ON; get him out of your system; it will not now suddenly work;
Let it be; stop lingering around him; or thoughts of getting together; find somebody else; whilst the ex is always in the background or in your mind you will never really move on; stop contact; make it clear to him, you have moved on;
at this rate you are wasting your life away; also the opportunity of meeting somebody else that you might find real happiness with.
Stop wasting time that you could be happy!
MOVE ON! Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): What's the point.
You've tried three times, and now you've been dumped again. A six month relationship, then three months sex and friends, then four months together, now your single again. You've tried, he's tried. What will change if you get back together, what will make him stay. Life is short baby, you've just spent over a year of your life with this guy, but you still remain single. You may love him, he may love you, but this type of relationship is soul destroying and hurtfull and eventually a waste of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): the question is-are you ready to spend even more time on/with your ex? if you stay together for a little while longer and break up again will you be thinking 'omg i've wasted so much of my time on this guy?'
maybe you should check out this new guy who has an interest first and if you don't see it going anywhere then think about having another go with your ex.
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