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30-35,
*oatinggirl
writes:how can i trust my 22 year old bf when i am not around him i know i can kinda trust him but i am not sure he has told me he loves me and want to marry me and buys me gifts none stop offering to pay for everything i am fine with that but he lives an hour away and he constantly talks about his ex girlfriends and i have told him it depresses me how do i know i can trust somthing?
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reader, Boatinggirl +, writes (25 June 2008):
Boatinggirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i heard about his probelms and they really concern me more than i thought they would he plans to marry me and have children with me yes i am ready for both just we are waiting for me to be 18 but now i really worry cause all the girls i see are wanting him touching him and is being acused to be a father of a kid
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 How comes you fear that he wont live long hun? Send me a private massage if you want to talk about anything further ok? x
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reader, Boatinggirl +, writes (23 June 2008):
Boatinggirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have talked to him and he is caring alot for me but i fear he won't live long in his life he has aot of problems
thanks for the advice
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reader, art guy  +, writes (22 June 2008):
I would have to agree with the rpevious answer. And from a male perspective, we do talk about our ex's i guess they were part of our lives, and if you want us to open up to you and share, it comes with the fact that he has been romantically involved with someone else. To not talk about that part of his life would be to censor what he tells you. I do not think that you would truly want that.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (21 June 2008):
I know exactly what you mean, but i've had the more awkward side i guess, a stupidly far long distance relationship, talking half way across the country here, but has he actually done anything to arouse suspicion apart from talk about his ex's? To me it sounds like he's completely infatuated by you, and iv had plenty of boyfriends who would talk about their ex's, i've just managed to figure out n grasp the concept that, thats what most guys do? Dont ask me why but its always seemed that apparent to me, if it depresses you then talk to him and tell him that you dont like it simply cos it makes you feel insecure perhaps? Personally i wouldn't worry bout it, sounds to me that he's genuinely into you, so good luck with everything x
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