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writes:Can a str8 friend be really in love with his gay friend through their deep friendship? He say's he love me but I doubt it to be true. We have one of the greatest fight last night because we are arguing why I can't believe him saying that he loves me. I can feel it somehow but I really can't believe it since it is humanely impossible to have a very str8 almost homophobic friend be in love with a simple discreet gay like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Christhickcock  +, writes (12 April 2009):
yes. gay or not love is love. we don't get the choice of who it is we love. just how we react upon it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 Not really no, lots of homo-phobes I suspect of having gay fantasies, else why obsess so much about it, but for him to be in love with you in a romantic sense he can't be 100% straight as you claim.
Few people are of course 100% straight, humans are far more complex than that.
Make sure he ain't just playing with you or you could get really hurt but if he is not that kind, well go with the flow. Yes he might not continue through with his feelings but if you don't try you will never know.
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reader, Jes +, writes (22 June 2008):
Jes is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yes! he does know I am gay! HE says he loves me and it's quite sincere though but it's impossible to happen right? He says if only I am a girl, he wants me to be his gf like that. But of course I cannot be his gf, Im not a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): He probably loves you as in he deeply cares for you. He loves you, but he's not in love with you.
Or did he imply anything else? In what context did he say he loves you? Does he know you're gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): In a word, NO!
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