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writes: i recently got too close to a married man i was chatting to online . We fell for each other without ever meetingi no longer chat with him it is over and i miss him.What I want to know is anyone else out there that and how has it affected you.has experienced the same or similari am married in a complicated sexless marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): I became attached to a married man in real life. Trust me, these things don't work out. Be grateful things are over between you and that you haven't wasted any more of your time on a man who will never really love you.
If your marriage is complicated and loveless/sexless, that's a separate issue. Your interest in this married man is a sign that something in your current marriage is not working and/or you aren't getting what you need, physically or emotionally. I would act accordingly, whether this means going to a marriage counselor alone or with your husband, or getting a divorce so that both of you are free to find other partners who will love you the way you want to be loved.
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